QUIT
Amongst our great-grand elders, if you have observed, the suicide rates have been majorly higher for men than women. And that is because of the most famous sayings — _“Aadmi rote nahi hai”_ or _“Mard ko dard nahi hota”_ or _“Tu mard hai, tu haar jaayega toh tere parivar ko kaun sambhalega?”_
Arey bhaiya, kyu? Why can’t he feel emotions? Just because they are men, does that mean they do not have the right to feel basic human emotions? Does it make them less of a man? This statement does not make sense.
The pressure men take may be was getting so much harder that they used to think giving up on their life was a better solution, because they were built not to speak about their hard times and were told to take everything on their shoulders.
For a lot of people out there, I know you would still say that I understand this wrong — it is not like that, they have been told all this so they feel strong enough to handle themselves and can take care of their family. My question will still be the same — *WHY?*
Why can a man feel the loss, the pain, and lose control of handling everyone, when his family — his wife, daughter, friend, and parents — can handle him? Why not give them the chance?
No, this isn’t me being shameless, mannerless, rude, or disrespectful to whomever this may concern. I am just putting forward what I think is important for the world today to know and accept that it is okay to *QUIT* that relationship, that job, those friends, those family members (you know whom).
Especially to all those men out there — it is okay if you are not comfortable or if you cannot take that pressure. Just *QUIT* and come back *HEALED*. ❤️
